10 Strategies so that Your Live Meeting on Tinder Would Work (Part 1)
Dating and finding a sweetheart is quite easy these days. If you are single, you just open Tinder and the big puzzle begins - to swipe left or right. So in just an hour you can arrange a date with someone for Friday night. Modern romance, perfect for Gen Z (and not only).
Of course, online communication is always a double-edged sword - you might meet the soulmate of your life (or the best sex of your life), but you might also end up with the worst date ever.
Anyone who has gone on a Tinder date has definitely experienced that inner excitement. They have also faced the inevitable questions - will they like me, will I like the person behind the profile in real life, will he/she look the same as in the photos, will he/she not be a maniac or a sociopath???
If we assume that you have managed to ensure the other party is safe, then comes the night of your first date. We offer you five useful tips that will help you present yourself in your most charming way and have a good time.
1. Dress up cool
If you can't find anything suitable in your wardrobe, buy a new garment. Do not show up in dirty clothes/shoes or flip-flops, no matter it is summer. If you yourself do not approve how you are dressed, it will certainly not go unnoticed. Because people who like each other radiate confidence and it makes them even more attractive. Also, wear something that won't make you uncomfortable.
2. Be positive
Look forward to the evening with good expectations instead of focusing on the things that could go wrong. Smile more and spread joy, because a good mood is contagious. More, an optimistic outlook has a huge impact on our well-being.
3. Try to have neutral expectations
It makes no sense to imagine yourself in a wedding dress/tailcoat and a ring on your finger right at the beginning of the meeting. And don't go in with the mindset that this is not going to be your guy/girl. It is just an introduction that will give you a chance to get to know each other and see if you are compatible and you would like something to connect you in the future.
4. Make difference between romance and physical chemistry
A sense of sexual chemistry does not always lead to a serious relationship. Like many relationships that start out just like that, slowly then grow into love, marriage and family.
5. Be ready what to do next
If you have decided to just have a coffee, explore the surrounding areas in case you like it. Then you can follow up with dinner, drinks, and/or all three (if you are in that mood). If you prepare in advance with the program, you will not waste time unnecessarily wondering what to do, and if the other party is still not sure, this may influence their choice in your favor.
Stay tuned for part two for more love hacks for successful Tinder dating.
