Despite the perceived stigma, many people find an open relationship, where a person and their partner agree to have romantic or sexual relationships with others, very satisfying. This relationship structure is also known as ethical non-monogamy (ENM) or consensual non-monogamy (CNM).

A survey by YouGov America in 2023 found that 12% of adults had engaged sexually with someone who was not their primary partner but with their consent. Regardless of whether they want an open relationship or not, most people (82%) approve them.

Although the debate over whether people are naturally monogamous, 30% of people say no, is great, the normalization of open relationships gives each person a safe space to make a decision about monogamy for themselves.

The current young Gen Z are quite familiar with it, as this type of relationship is not something new to them. Open relationships are being talked about more openly than ever.

Non-monogamous people seem to be everywhere on dating apps (like Tinder) these days.

Together with the mainstream acceptance of this type of relationship, the additional conversation pops up about what makes an open relationship successful.

Here are some open relationship rules to follow to keep both you and your partner happy and satisfied.

Getting to know why you are looking for an open relationship before starting one is very important. Take some time to be honest with yourself about your desires and needs. An open relationship can be great when it is something you want to do, not something you feel you have to do.

It is not enough to say "Let's have an open relationship". A successful open relationship requires clear boundaries. At first you may not want to hear anything about your partner's dating, but later you may want to share a little. Of course, it also depends on whether your partner feels comfortable discussing such details with you.

It is good to have frequent conversations with your partner about exactly what the conditions are for having such a relationship and whether you want to change anything. What you think you might like in theory may not actually be something you like in reality or vice versa. Or you may have felt good about something at one point, but no longer feel that way.

This is a new experience and it will take time to get it right. Be willing to learn and grow together. Just because an open relationship might look one way on TV or social media, it doesn't mean yours has to look the same way.

Be patient with yourself and your partner as you get used to the rules of this type of relationship.

Safe sex is one of the things you should definitely discuss before entering into an open relationship. Protection and regular testing are important to maintaining safety and awareness in such a relationship.