10 Strategies so that Your Live Meeting on Tinder Would Work (Part 2)
In the previous part, we gave you the top five useful hacks for a successful first date with someone on Tinder.
Time for the second round of tips. We have already made it clear that dating platforms are an easy way to find a boyfriend or girlfriend with extras these days. Especially for Gen Z (and not only), who do not even know that only 30-40 years ago, after the first meeting, young people had to get married.
But, let's move on without further ado. Before that, just a few words about safe Tinder dating. Never forget that the other person may not be who they say they are. In order to make sure that he/she is suitable for you, the best thing is to communicate in advance and try to understand as much as possible about the person you are about to meet. Ask and try to look at his/her social media profiles, find out what his/her social circle is like, talk on the phone.
So, here are the next five (FREE) valuable tips for the perfect Tinder-dating.
6. Be communicative
Let your conversation flow like a dialogue. You don't need to cross-examine the person on the first date. Choose topics that you will enjoy talking about and that will put you in a positive mood. You can ask for advice on a cool movie or book, to ask to tell you about a favorite trip, what he/she likes doing at weekends...
7. Don't delve into personal topics
You’d better avoid questions about ex-es, career, marital status. You should neither talk about your last failed relationship. If things go well between you, you will have plenty of time to delve into the depths of your personal life.
8. Be a good listener
Use your active listening skills. Leave your phone and forget temporarily about other chats and social media. Instead, ask open-ended questions and build on what you have just learned about the person opposite you.
9. Be careful with your body language
If you flirt and, for example, bite your lips often, this may be a sign to the other party that you are looking for quick sex. If, on the other hand, you cross your arms on your chest in a defensive position, it can be interpreted as excessive protection and unwillingness for friendship. Make sure you give off the right signals and try to maintain eye contact while smiling and looking welcoming.
10. Be careful with alcohol consumption
Both with the glasses of the other party and the amount you drink. You don't want to have no memories of this meeting or to be left with ugly ones...
