Things We All Should Be More Honest About
Lying has become a phenomenon deeply intertwined with our daily lives because it is embedded in the way modern society and the rules and standards for communication and behavior are structured. We lie to appear to be someone we are not, we lie at the expense of our true feelings and those of the people around us.
Here are some situations where you really can and should be more honest.
Do not look for excuses and reasons when you are invited to a party and you don't feel like going out, just say: "No, thank you".
Frankly admit without feeling ashamed how you will look in the eyes of your interlocutors when you have not read a certain book or movie.
When asked what kind of gift you want, don't be shy about saying what you want or don’t preten liking a gift you don't really want. Stop receiving loads of unwanted gifts!
When you don't know something, don't pretend you do. It is normal not to know the answer to every question in the world!
If you know you are going to be late because you just got out of the bathroom and the person you have a date with arrives at the appointment, don't tell them you are stuck in traffic. Just make real plans!
When a friend asks you for advice, be honest! Don't tell him/her what he/she wants to hear. That's why you are friends - you trust each other and respect each other's opinions.
Of course, in many cultures youth is evenrated, but there is so much value and beauty in aging! Don't lie about how old you are!
When you are wrong, admit it! We all make mistakes, right, that's why pencils have erasers at the end!
Don't be afraid to admit that you need help! We cannot be good at everything at all times.
Overcome the fear of competition in the workplace and help new colleagues get started by being honest about your first steps.
Instead of complaining to your colleagues about unproductive or pointless elements of work, encourage open dialogue – it is a win-win.
Be honest with your partner about sex and the physical satisfaction you experience to avoid disappointment.
Don't lie to your partner about your funds. Being honest about money is like being honest about sex - the more you avoid embarrassing conversations, the more problems you will have in the future.
There is no shame in being jealous. Speak openly, do not allow jealousy to take harmful forms such as arguments, bad mood or revenge-like behavior!
Don't pretend you don't care when someone hurts your feelings! Being honest can actually bring you closer.
Say out loud the little irritants in the behavior of your sweetheart! They are small, but when they accumulate over time, they can erupt at an inappropriate moment.
Sincerity and honesty is the ability to be yourself and dare to say what you think. Be sincere and honest!
