15 Question to Discuss with your Boyfriend/Girlfriend If You Are Going t Live Together
Living under the same roof is a very serious, but also important step for every couple. However, this topic brings concerns for some partners, too, since they have not fully experienced the habits and lifestyle of the other. So, there are some important questions you and your partner should ask each other before living together.
1. What place do you want to live in and why?
2. How would you like to decorate your home?
3. How should you distribute your duties?
4. How often do you want your home cleaned?
5. How will you allocate your finances?
6. How much money would you allocate for a shared budget if you agreed to it?
7. How much money would you llocate for gatherings, travels, etc.?
8. What will be the budget for buying new furniture and home decorations?
9. Do you have any bad habits the other person should know about?
10. How often do you want to have guests over, how do you feel about having friends and family over?
11. Are there certain chores you love or hate doing?
12. How do you prefer shopping – alone or together?
13. How do you prefer eating - separately or together?
14. How will you pay the bills etc.?
15. What are your expectations from life together?
16. Are you moving in under the same roof with the idea of marriage?
The answer to each of the questions can bring you closer and above all prevent future disputes and misunderstandings. It is a good idea to get everything straight before taking such a serious step in your relationship.