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Stress at work, relationship problems, changes in the geopolitical situation, and many other things may cause anxiety. Even though sometimes you can deal with it yourself, quite often anxiety can lead to panic attacks. Psychologist Mykolas Krisciunas, who works at Kaunas Emotion Support Hotline Office, told Delfi how and why they occurred, and how to help yourself and others.
According to him, anxiety is usually related to uncertainty and is not linked to a specific cause. It is easy to discern between fear and anxiety because we are afraid of certain things, such as snakes, spiders, or heights. We can overcome fear by facing its source but identifying the exact cause of anxiety can be more difficult. Oftentimes severe anxiety that is poorly controlled may cause a panic attack.
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"Panic attacks are like the ultimate form of anxiety. Panic attacks and anxiety usually go hand in hand, and intense anxiety may lead to panic attacks. Essentially, these are episodic events when a person gets overwhelmed with various very intense emotional symptoms: thoughts about losing control, dying, and all kinds of tough existential issues," the psychologist explained.
A panic attack also involves a number of unpleasant emotional symptoms: rapid breathing, elevated heartbeat, and feeling hot or cold. Even though panic attacks do not last long, usually up to 10 minutes, during one it feels like it will never end. Within just a couple of minutes, a person’s emotional state may be greatly affected.
"The person feels like they are losing control, and that may actually be the case," Krisciunas said.
Having lost control, a fear that you may never get it back or are about to die occurs. On the positive side, the recovery after a panic attack is often also very rapid, and the symptoms quickly disappear.
<h2>Is it possible to stop a panic attack faster?</h2>
Even though a panic attack is relatively short, every minute may mean intense negative emotions and huge fear; therefore, stopping it as soon as possible is important. However, sometimes it is easier said than done.
"If a person realizes that a panic attack is taking place, that is already a very good sign. Also, knowing the general symptoms may help. If I know what a panic attack looks like (maybe I’ve even experienced one before), I understand that it is not life-threatening or long-lasting, so I can deal with it more easily," he added.
Regulating breathing during a panic attack may help too. One effective way is breathing into a bag. This technique is useful because carbon dioxide has a soothing effect. Another beneficial way is trying to "ground" yourself and realize where you currently are. On the other hand, it is worth remembering that a panic attack lasts for a very short period of time, so the person may not even comprehend what is happening.
"When people experience panic attacks for the first time, it is very difficult to identify them even if you know all the related information. But if it is a recurring thing, people often recognize what triggers panic attacks or how they feel before one, so they can breathe properly or talk to someone to decrease the severity," Krisciunas said.
How to help someone who is experiencing a panic attack?
It is not always easy to identify a panic attack if you are just a bystander, but if you think that is the case, it is possible to contribute to making the unpleasant episode shorter.
"From a purely physical point, encourage the person to breathe and help them count between breaths. During a panic attack, assuring the person that it will be over soon, it is not deadly, etc., may calm them down. You can also say something like: I see that you are struggling, but trust me, it will pass," the psychologist suggested.
According to Krisciunas, it is difficult to guarantee that another person’s assistance will be useful, but it is definitely worth a try if the one suffering from a panic attack is someone you know, someone close. If nothing helps, the panic attack eventually ends on its own; it just might take a little longer.
How to prevent intense anxiety and panic attacks?
Since intense anxiety and panic attacks may have a serious negative impact on the person’s emotional state, it is imperative to try to prevent them using all available means. First of all, you should consider your lifestyle and answer several essential questions: how many stressors are there in my life that cause anxiety, fear, or stress?; can I change these stressors or will I have to live with them indefinitely?
Also, do not forget to love and care for yourself, including psychohygiene: have a good night’s sleep, eat regularly and properly, and exercise.
"These elements create the foundation for our emotional well-being, and that is why they are so important," Krisciunas stressed.
Having identified certain symptoms and realised that something is not right because you feel anxious, stressed, and maybe are experiencing something akin to panic attacks, do not ignore these signs and seek help, avoid being alone. By timely preventing a panic or anxiety attack, you can avoid more serious anxiety-related issues.
"All in all, anxiety is a very natural state and simply impossible to avoid completely, but if anxiety is making your life a nightmare, do not wait for the situation to get worse," the psychologist reminded.
<h2>How to avoid emotional health changes while leading a busy lifestyle?</h2>
Nowadays, many people have a very intense and rapid lifestyle that may eventually lead to changes in emotional health. To think that a constant rush will not result in mental health issues is a little bit naïve.
"Anxiety and stress go hand in hand with our expectations. If you think that working, say, 16 hours a day will not have an effect on your daily life and emotional state, that is a rather naïve outlook," Krisciunas stressed.
Looking for things you can control in your everyday life may help improve your emotional state. For example, if you work a lot, perhaps you can still draw some stricter boundaries and spend more time with your loved ones. It is important to set a specific amount of time per day or per week and stick to it. Also, think about balance in your everyday life.
"If we keep doing one thing again and again, sooner or later we will get burned out and tired of it no matter what. Numerous psychological research shows that variety in life, even minimal, even if it is just doing something radically different from our actual work for 10 or 15 minutes a day, changes our emotional well-being completely, and our creativity improves," he concluded.