The "rules" should apply to both parties, not just one, otherwise it is unfair. In the following paragraphs, we will look at some double standards in relationships.

Most expectations are for men to initiate things. From taking the first step to choosing a restaurant. However, this responsibility can also be borne by women depending on the couple. None of them is healthy. The answer is to encourage your partner to take the initiative. People are different, and expectations can make you feel like you are doing all the work all the time, while the other person just needs a little nudge to take the initiative.

Your choice of friends and the time you spend with them can also cause tension in relationships. Maybe you should try to understand why your partner doesn't like your friends or the time you spend with them. At the end of the day, you have to trust yourself no matter who you spend time with. Discuss the things out and find a balance.

Housework is also a common double standard in relationships. First, you need to identify why you think things are not the same. After that, it's all a matter of a relaxed conversation.

Some people like going out and have fun, some people not so much. If your partner is a party person and always wants you to go out, you might find a compromise. The vice versa is also true.

Finances can also cause a problem in a relationship. The same can be said about sex. Men are expected to always want sex, while women are more likely to refuse.

Jealousy can destroy a relationship. If your partner is trying to control you, you need to pay attention to it.

In a relationship, it is all about balance and the compromises you have to make to be with the person you love.